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When things are going well and everything feels so right… it’s hard to think rationally at times, even though we are ashamed of our eagerness in retrospect when the infatuation chemicals have worn off. It’s important to remember that these things can be a serious step for many people — even if you don’t think so at the time. Rushing into things like this too quickly will often scare the girl away. After the first time you’ve slept together, don’t be so available.
But don’t worry — if you want to get a girlfriend in middle school, all you have to do is flirt with her a bit, make her feel special, and ask her out. My best advice for you is to be casual about it – don’t try too hard.
Forming a relationship is not a set of rigid sequences. Rather, it’s a rocky road with unexpected turns and twists — and it’s different for everyone. The steps presented here will definitely help you.
It’s a cliché thing to say, but love works pretty casually. Don’t have your goal be to get a girlfriend, have it be to have fun and enjoy your time.
Everyone likes having someone to talk to, especially women. I cannot recall all the times when I would tell a story to my boyfriend and then he would just reply with “yeah, yeah,” as he’s texting. Don’t be that guy. That guy will not have a girlfriend at the end of the day.
To assure you WILL be ready when the time and the right woman comes along. Time to get past all the negative shit and just accept it – she’s with him and not you and you’re not privy to their relationship.
With that in mind, you shouldn’t try asking unless you already have a pretty good idea she’ll say yes. Hang out with her friends too. Girls place a lot of importance on what their friends think. If you want her to be your girlfriend, it goes a long way to have her friends like you.
Girls get tired of the constant lame pickup lines like, “you’re hot” or “what’s up? ” These lines work for some girls but not the cream of the crop. Women appreciate the romantic guys that work a little to figure out the best route to ask a girl out.
Make sure you don’t try this one if you don’t have at least some musical talent. If there’s any route to capture the heart of a girl, it’s by playing her a personalized song. Truth be told… if you are serious about a girl and you think you can actually start a relationship and make it go somewhere special, then you need to make certain she understands you will do whatever it takes to make this happen. Girls like a little romance, so when you put some creatively cute thought into the way you ask a girl out, there’s a good chance you’ll be seeing each other for quite some time. This is especially true of choosing the best time for „turning points“.
So that even if she rejects you, you don’t feel rejected because ‘you weren’t really trying’. How do you know if you’re doing this or not? Well if you make up an excuse to hang out with her on a continuous basis, such as to study together, for work or any other reason then you’re playing it too safe.
You’ll naturally become choosier, by learning what it is you truly desire in a woman. Women want men who feel like they are the choosers — men who select the women they want in their life.